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Divorcing a Narcissist: Gratitude. What are you grateful for today?
by Lucy K. Wright “Believe in yourself, and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle” (Christian Larson) There is always something to be thankful for....
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Dealing with a Narcissist? Don’t Overthink. It’s Not Worth Your Time.
by Lucy K. Wright My goal for the New Year is to Quit Over-thinking. Quit Over-thinking Everything. Especially everything related to the Ex-N. I’ve spent a lot of time in my life trying to predict his...
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Love Again After the Narcissist = Equals = Loving Yourself First
by Lucy K. Wright Loving someone who doesn’t love you back, who is only capable of loving themselves… is like waiting for a ship at the airport. One of the happiest moments of life is letting go what...
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Post-Divorce Financial Abuse: And the Battle Continues.
by Lucy K. Wright Almost a decade post-divorce and I average an attorney bill each month that is well over double my mortgage and car payment combined. Given my salary, current expenses, and...
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Dealing with a Narcissist Father: YES, You Can Make Your Own Decisions About...
by Lucy K. Wright “What do you want to be when you grow up?” I wanted to be a lawyer. When I was 16 years old, I had no doubt at all that this is what I wanted to do. But when I told my Narcissistic...
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“7 degrees of Separation” …OR… 7 degrees of Narcissistic Interpretation
by Lucy K. Wright “Per the decree,” is one of my ExN’s very favorite phrases. My first lawyer told me not even to worry about the decree when I originally signed it because the ExN and I would be...
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Parental Responsibilities Evaluation (PRE) Process: Just Breathe, and Expect...
by Lucy K. Wright I had no idea that when my ExN filed a motion to request 50/50 parenting time that we would be venturing down the long, winding, twisted, turning road of yet another multi-month PRE...
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Narcissists and Child Support: You Give an Inch. They Take 100 Miles.
by Lucy K. Wright Child support is a simple calculation: Income for both – Number of overnights for both – Calculated annually. There’s a form. On the State website. Plug in the numbers and automatic –...
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Don’t Let Your Babies Grow Up To Be…Disrespectful…Like Their Narcissistic Parent
by Lucy K. Wright My kids came home from a weekend with the Narcissistic Ex recently to confidentially inform me that I never graduated from college. “Dad said”…. “You quit college before you got your...
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Contempt Charges and the Narcissistic – Is it Even Worth It?
by Lucy K. Wright Right now, this very minute as I type, my ExN is in Contempt. As I sit here contemplating the legal decisions I may, or may not need to make over the next few days, I cannot help but...
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